Why we need to stop treating infidelity as a monster and start seeing it as a mirror.
Let me be clear upfront: This is not a defense of cheating. It is an autopsy of why it happens, and a plea to stop pretending that the capacity for infidelity lives only in “bad people” on the other side of a moral fence. To Affair is Human
We all want to feel interesting, desirable, and alive. In long-term relationships, the mirror of our partner’s gaze can grow foggy. They see “mom” or “dad” or “the breadwinner,” not the vibrant, complicated individual underneath. An affair often isn’t about finding a better partner—it’s about finding a better version of yourself in someone else’s eyes. That craving for validation? That’s human. Why we need to stop treating infidelity as