Think Like — A Man

And you definitely forgot #3. If she knows exactly what you will say, wear, and do for the next ten years, the mystery dies. You become a roommate.

You forgot #2. When was the last time you looked her in the eyes for ten seconds without a phone in your hand? When did you last listen to her work drama without trying to "fix it"? Think Like A Man

She says: "I am so stressed about this project at work." You say: "Here is the three-step plan to fix your project." She says: "You never listen to me." You say: "But I just solved your problem!" And you definitely forgot #3

But you’re missing the point. The timeline isn’t the strategy. The filter is the strategy. Think Like A Man