The Changeover Apr 2026

We are addicted to timelines. We want the six-week transformation challenge. We want the 30-day happiness cleanse. But real change—the kind that rewires your neurons and reshapes your destiny—operates on what the poet David Whyte calls "the time of the heart." It does not punch a clock.

The silence is deafening.

You will be yours . And that is infinitely better. If you are reading this right now, sitting in your own metaphorical grocery store parking lot, feeling the walls of your old life crumbling around your ears, let me tell you what no one else will: The Changeover

You will not be younger. You will not be more innocent. You will not be more popular. We are addicted to timelines

We try to stop the collapse. We white-knuckle our way through therapy. We take up running. We drink more wine. We scroll through old photos to remind ourselves of the "good times." We do everything to preserve the architecture of the old self. But real change—the kind that rewires your neurons