“Because traits are not destiny,” Lovro said. “They are tendencies. And tendencies can be redirected. Let me show you another lens.” They walked to Lovro’s apartment, a dusty shrine to psychology’s past. On his desk sat a small statue of Sigmund Freud. “You mentioned hiding under the bed when your father shouted,” Lovro said. “Tell me about that.”
“Please,” she said. “I’d like that.” psihologija licnosti
“That is one truth. Traits are stable over time—they predict your career, your marriage, your health. Studies show high Neuroticism correlates with divorce. Low Conscientiousness with quitting jobs. Your current crisis, from this lens, is not a crisis at all. It is simply your personality reverting to its mean after years of suppression.” “Because traits are not destiny,” Lovro said